LOVE IS JUST A WORD

1. I remember when I was younger, I had  this friend who was in a relationship and  she always used to get rejected by her crush over and over over . that annoyed me so much as she couldn't forget him  because she loved  him  so much to let go of him.. I couldn't understand back then and the whole situation looked stupid to me.. One day right after a DUNO rejection , while everyone was keep consoling her  and she looked soooo sad and confused.. I rushed towards her and said with a very serious tone "why don't you just let go of him, there are plenty of boys  and you can get in a relationship with any other boy" SHe looked at me with a sad, angry and serious face and replied " We do not choose the one we love ASSIA". I felt weird and had to reflect about that for a moment while they were on their way getting farther, and I'm staring at her .. I had so many questions on my mind some of them that I can still remember are: how can you love someone in such circumstances..? Do I know what is love to advice someone about it? am I gonna live to know what love is or not? can't we really choose who we love? I couldn't understand back then and I honestly still can't understand how does it work when you fall in love with someone it's just strange and It's weird how some very simple things can make you reflect in so many important matters in a very short time.. but now i realize what love means ... actually its not by experience  but by the books that i'v  read because the book give us a totale image about love soo by the definition of books (love'ones ) :  Love is just a WORD  yeap  a simpl  word  ....until somebody comes along and gives it a meaning it could be a positive meaning or the opposite and  it takes so many different shapes that you could never understand what it feels like before you fall in... its huge trap  i remember being exited about it when i was  very young hahahah (like i'm an adulte right now ) ...thinking  who will it be that would make me feel that way ? Will that person reflect the same feelings towards me ? I didn't realize back then that love was way more complicated then that , life is not some sort of a ferry tail where everything is simple , and where you can get anyone to love you back , you often get rejected and its very hard to move on , but in the other hand those rejections aren't gonna last , and someone will eventually come along and define the word love to you . so love its just a WORD ...........U MAKE YOUR DEFINTION MAKE IT BETTER , MAKE IT REAL,  MAKE IT   a beautifull word ... AND FOR ME I'LL KEEP WAITING THE DEFINITION UNTIL HE COMES  BY COINSIDENCE