Daire of Jane ..

 "....I prefer to stay single for all my life than to be with the wrong person. When I was  younger, my feelings sometimes fooled me. People always look perfect at first, especially when we are looking for company and feeling alone. That's why I used to date and get into some absurd relationships thinking that I have found the right boy  who will spend his entire life with me. Then, after two or three months or even lesser than that, I start to change my mind about him and our relationship doesn't go any further than that. After a number of unsuccessful relationships and until I experienced how it is disappointing when someone suddenly shock you and tell you that he doesn't want to continue anymore. So, I decided that if I wasn't sure enough about my feelings I wouldn't make any promises and I wouldn't start any kind of relationships. I decided that I should be careful and understand better my feelings and my wills. It was only when I was rejected that I knew what I did with some boys & I knew how hard it was for them. I actually thank that one boy  who made me realise what a fool I was. Now I can tell the difference, when I like someone and when I love someone. there is a big difference between these two situations. The only similarity is that in both ways you feel like you want to spend a lot of time with that person, but only when you're in love  you feel like you never want to lose them. "